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Oral servicing – a blow job in simple terms – allows for an excellent opportunity for verbal humiliation. But as the dominant, you’ll need to train for this. The idea is to ridicule her efforts and make her panic.
This is the general idea. Let her work her butt off, but make her panic as her efforts do not seem to work.
An experienced dominant will be able to control his penis to the point were he can deliberately make it go down again, even when simulated.
And that is exactly what we are after.
The shrinking thing in her mouth will probably be enough to bring her to tears, since she will expect quite the opposite. Besides, by doing this you will take something else away: a serious part of her “control”.
Once she has experienced that she doesn’t even control your sexual pleasure, no matter how hard she tries, she will start to understand that she has lost even her last line of defense!
So, your first goal would be NOT to cum, but to wait and wait and wait and let her work harder and harder. This – to most men – is not an easy thing to do, so you may want to train for this.
Learn to control your penis with your mind and postpone your orgasm (which is fun in general, you’ll have a much better one if you wait and wait and postpone it!). Then try to actually release the tension on your penis and let it shrink.
Even if it shrinks only a little, the effects will be enormous.
We probably do not need to tell you that this is the moment. When it happens tell her how disappointed you are. How she cannot even do a simple thing like a blow job. How she is letting you down. And then watch what happens.
We promise you a much more obedient and an even more determined slave!
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