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24/7 BDSM Relationship – Maintenance

Another good slave job is to maintain the dungeon (if you have one) and the BDSM gear. Since this is directly BDSM related it will probably be a fun job to her. Besides, it keeps your stuff in excellent condition and it makes her more safety aware. So this is a triple-bladed knife. If you don not have a dungeon (play room) but normally use your bedroom to play, for example, that will be the target for this job.

BDSM gear is maintenance-intensive. Internal toys (vibrators, plugs, gags and dildo’s) for example should be cleaned thoroughly after each time they have been used. These, and such things as needles, clamps, ropes, etcetera also have their own storage requirements.

To a somewhat lesser extent the same is true for leather. And in general there is always something to do, not just the cleaning of the area itself. Besides, a clean and proper environment and clean and well-maintained gear and toys are safer and more fun. Besides, a properly maintained play area is a lot easier for the dominant to work with. And that, too, will be to her own benefit as well.

If you have a regularly used dungeon this almost requires daily attention and in general – especially after active play – there will be lot to do – cleaning, storage, tou and gear maintenance. especially the day after an active, steamy session this will be an excellent opportunity to relive what happened the other day. If your bedroom is your play area, there is actually all the more reason to pay attention to that as well. A properly maintained area is more inspiring, hence the harder she works, the higher the chances of active play.

Lots of Extras

Jobs such as these can quite easily become almost a solo-session on their own. As far as cleaning is concerned, for example, think brooms, brushes, rugs and buckets rather than vacuum cleaners. Scrubbing the floor barefoot on her knees is better than a relatively simple vacuuming job. And if you want to be extra demanding (at times) a toothbrush to replace the broom and brush is probably a good idea, especially as a punishment for a previous job not well done!

Most experienced doms will require a special (humiliating) dress for this, being barefoot, no make-up and there is nothing wrong with some sweating as well. Inspections (again, surprise inspections are the preferred route to go) are a must, since these will tell her this is just as important to you as it is to her. In fact, the fact that it is important to you will probably make it extra important to her.

Many other extras depend on your circumstances and preferences. A wooden floor requires regular waxing of course. If you have a lot of rubber or silicone toys, gear or clothing, this requires quite a bit of extra attention as well. Being demanding is a good thing here and you will soon find you – dominant – will find more inspiration from this and the whole thing will become (even) more important to both of you than it was before.

The above article is a reprint from our information/educational site Kink Culture.
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