Welcome to Wasteland’s international guide to BDSM club websites, informational groups and services. We have handpicked these clubs and groups for their non-commercial integrity – most have been around since before the internet was invented and the people who run them are dedicated to the lifestyle 110%. If you are new to the bdsm community or live in a remote area, spend some time with this list, especially the Information and Support Groups section, to see the depth of passion and commitment amongst us.

BDSM Club and Group Listings

Clubs, clubs and more clubs! Half of the fun of being in the BDSM and Fetish community is attending events with like-minded people to strut your stuff and meet new people. The following is a list of long-standing parties and events around the world.

♠ 1763 A Deviant Place of Decadence – 1763 is Atlanta’s fully equipped dungeon. We have over 10,000 s.f. of play space including a full medical room, full service kitchen, many dungeons and Whips Bed and Bondage Hotel.

♠ Albany Power eXchange (APeX) – APeX is a social, educational, and support group in Upstate NY. We host public and private events in the Albany area.

♠ Arizona Power EXchange – Pan-sexual, pan-fetish educational organization in Phoenix offering weekly meetings, support groups and parties

♠ BDSM Club Fetish Café – BDSM Club The Fetish Café, Barcelona, Spain.

♠ BDSM Nevada – BDSM Nevada is a satellite site of VegasBDSM. Linked directlty to VegasBDSM Weekly Munch and events at various locations please check out our site for information. Yahoo membership required.

♠ Berlin Leder und Fetisch – We want to be a club for all gay men, who belong to or are interested in the leather scene and moreover for all other gay men, who love another fetish. Berlin. Site in German and English.

♠ Bound – Bound is a promotional organization with the mission of hosting Industrial/Goth/Fetish dance parties, and distributing information catering to the fetish community.

♠ CAPEX – The Charlotte Area Power Exchange. Non profit, pansexual organization providing a safe, friendly and discrete BDSM environment for in the Charlotte/South Central Piedmont area the Carolinas.

♠ Club Social Rosas5 – BDSM Club Rosas5 Barcelona Spain.

♠ Club Sunrise – Swedish/Svensk BDSM-förening. Only in swedish.

♠ CLUB XS – monthly players fetish club. Approx 40 mins from South London.

♠ Columbia Erotic Power Exchange – Columbia Erotic Power Exchange (C.E.P.E.) is a Mid-Missouri organization that exists to provide a supportive environment for sharing interest in B.D.S.M.

♠ Dark Side Club – The sensual Club in Berlin – Experience playrooms, stables and special furniture in a mystique, sexual atmosphear. Dark Side, Nostitzstr. 30, Berlin, Germany

♠ DESERT DOMINION – A pan-gender/pan-fetish ‘BDSM’ club in Tucson Az w/a 2600sqft clubhouse. All play is SSC. Come join in our fun.

♠ Dirge Factory – Goth/Industrial dance night and fetish party. Equipped play room. Full bar. Fetish dress strongly encouraged.

♠ Domination Palace – SM hous in the Netherlands (Valkenswaard)

♠ DomSubFriends – New York city BDM Society with demos, lectures, munches and exlusive parties.

♠ fetish bar in the heart of bangkok – bangkoks prime fetish and lifestyle club.

♠ Fetish Warehouse NY – Adult Fetish, Fantasy, club. NYC’s Biggest Dungeon over 5,000 Sq. Ft. Your Host Lenny Waller.

♠ Galleria Domain Two Social Club – Galleria Domain Two is Chicago’s biggest, best equipped club. We offer our members a large, clean, elegant space with many scene stations. Newcomer’s socials and workshops are free to the community.

♠ Gatherings – weekly gatherings held in dayton ohio at DSSC. Yahoo membership required.

♠ Hush Now BDSM Functions by Mistress Tan – Hush Now functions by Mistress Tan were created for adults with a genuine interest in BDSM and each function promotes safe, responsible and consensual adult role playing and having FUN. Held every 2nd week in Melbourne for the past 5 years with over 5,000 members.

♠ InKink – InKink is a private organization of like minded individuals who share an active interest in BDSM activities. Our focus is on education, entertainment, and safety in the practice of BDSM activities.

♠ Knights of Leather – Private, pansexual bdsm organization located in Minneapolis, MN.

♠ La Fraternitie du Loup-Garou – LLC founded by and for masculine gender outlaws (ie. FTMs & TGButch), and their allies.

♠ Leather Mountain – A bdsm play and party space located in the heart of the Cascade Mountains. A short drive from Seattle and surounding cities. The best of bdsm in a superb venue.

♠ Local Scene: USA – Guide to clubs and munches.

♠ Maison De Sade (Weston Super Mare) – Bdsm events in South Western UK.

♠ Miss Kitty’s Parlour – LA’s hottest weekly rock & fetish party.

♠ National Leather Association, Dallas – The largest NLA chapter in North America. NLA: Dallas is pansexual and its primary mission is in leather/SM/fetish education. Monthly meetings focus on specific workshops & seminars.

♠ New England Dungeon Society – New England Dungeon Society is a pan sexual educational, support and social group.

♠ New York Bondage Club – We are a safe sex, bondage, s/m, play club for men.

♠ New York Renegades – Leather/Rubber/Bondage/SM, Man-to-Man Action!

♠ PaddlesNYC The Friendly S&M Club – Come Join in the fun EVERY FRIDAY & SAT. NIGHTS, The Doors open at 10pm for Tons of Bondage , Tickling , Foot Worship , Flogging , Clothes Pins ,Spanking, Waxing , and some good Old Fashion BDSM.

♠ powerexchange.com – The Power Exchange is a sex club in San Francisco. Featuring a wide open dungeon and more.

♠ San Diego Club X – Club X is San Diego’s pansexual educational & social leather/ SM/ fetish group. Monthly workshops and socials. All are welcome in Club X so check us out.

♠ SF Citadel – The SF Citadel is a play space in the heart of San Francisco, a community center for the entire leather population, and an education center.

♠ SM-Club TOUCH – The most wellknown SM-Club in northern Germany since 10 years. You find professional and privat SM-friends. Site in German.

♠ SMart Café – SM/Fetish Café in Vienna/Austria.

♠ spicebdsm.com – Spice is a legal not for profit Florida corporation whose goal is to promote the BDSM (B&D, D/s, SM) & Fetish alternative lifestyles in a positive manner in South Florida.

♠ Taboo Club – Monthly BDSM & fetish Friday party in Leicester, central UK. Friendly and intimate, with fully equipped dungeon, private rooms.

♠ Tampa Fetish Party Central – We are an alternative lifestyle/Fetish/BD/SM/D/s educational and social resource, offering bimonthly gatherings and contacts.

♠ The Alternative – A friendly monthly fetish night in perfect Central Manchester dungeon venue.

♠ The BackDrop Club – We are a BDSM club in Mountain View, Ca offering play space rentals, classes, social events and private sessions for men, women and couples.

♠ The Black Eagle – Toronto, Ontario leather bar.

♠ The Chap’s – Belgian bdsm club with feeling and ambiance. next to Brussels, Antwerp, Köln, Maastricht. great back romm with bdsm material available.

♠ The Crucible – DC’s only BDSM nightclub and East Coast Dungeon Rental Service.

♠ The Dungeon – The Dungeon is situated in the heart of old Yafo, within an ancient Multi-level Turkish structure. it is an S&M and fetish club and is the first of its kind in Israel.

♠ The Enclave – Upscale social setting for folks interested in alternative sexual lifestyles. Focus on bdsm, D/s, fetish but all are welcome. No membership required to attend weekly Mixers. Denver.

♠ The Gate BDSM Club – The Gate is a club for newcomers & the experienced player. Dungeon features over 15 pieces of custom made furniture and a host of toys. Events twice monthly. Venue NW London.

♠ The Heretic Atlanta Home Page – Atlanta Leather Bar.

♠ The Labyrinth Denver - The Labyrinth is a Denver, Colorado based real-time Private Membership Club for people of all cultures, sexual orientation, and gender identification.

♠ The Lords of Leather – the only registered Leather Mardi Gras Krewe (gay or str8!)

♠ The Master’s Quest – Open every Wed, Fri and Saturday night. Over 4000sq ft. & 18 play stations for your enjoyment. The Quest is central Fl. only permanent BDSM Dungeon since 1998

♠ The Mission – The Mission is a private pan sexual bdsm club dedicated to providing members and the greater bdsm community of central N.J and Eastern PA.

♠ The Sanctuary for Lifestyle Arts – Sanctuary, the premiere Dungeon and Social Club serving the BDSM community and professional needs of the Dallas/Fort Worth Metroplex, North Texas, and beyond.

♠ The world famous SM club DOMA – Video’s, clubinfo, partydates, agenda, the worldfamous SM club DOMA is yours. Site includes membership area. Located in the Hague, NL.

♠ Tokyo Kink Society – TKS is a non profit BDSM/fetish club modelled after similar clubs in Europe and North America. Membership is around 50:50 foreigner and japanese. We hold lounges as well as large scale nightclub BDSM fetish events in central Tokyo and elsewhere..

♠ Torture Garden – Torture Garden is the world largest and most cutting edge fetish/body art club. Monthly events in London.

♠ Twisted Vanilla – We are a real-life/time BDSM-D/s lifestyle group based in Nevada offering support and social activities for non-vanilla people including a discussion board, munches, and parties. Yahoo membership required..

♠ Western Mass. Power Exchange – The Western Mass. Power Exchange (WMPE) is a social and educational organization made up of individuals and couples who gather together to promote & expand awareness and understanding of the BDSM & D/s lifestyle in the greater Southern New England region..

♠ Windy City Bondage Club – A group of men that holds play parties twice a month in Chicago to explore the erotic aspects of bondage and BDSM. .

INFORMATION AND SUPPORT GROUPS
As with any alternative sexuality community, sometimes there is just a need to talk to someone who shares the same philosphy and has faced some of the same challenges in dealing with straight societal opinions of our bdsm lifestyle. The following list is comprised of organizations, many going back 30 years or more, that provide a safe and sane haven for frank dialogue, and emotional support when things go wrong with family and friends.

♠ Black Rose, Washington DC – Black Rose is a support, education, and social group for adults who share these interests in the context of caring relationships. Black Rose is a pansexual group, open to those of any sexual orientation. It is our goal to provide a comfortable, safe, and discreet environment where one can meet others of like mind..

♠ Boise BDSM Society – A BDSM meeting place for the residents of Boise, ID.

♠ Boise Black Rose Society – Boise BDSM support and education group. We welcome all types of BDSM lifestylers. Not a play group.

♠ C-BDSM – A social and support BDSM/Fetish community in the Canberra, Australia area.

♠ DEDICATED & SAFE, INC – Pansexual/het environment that meets the first Thursday monthly at 7:30pm for demos and/or discussions. Chicago.

♠ Hearts In Service – This group is to for those who want to learn more about the service related aspects in a Ds, or Ms Lifestyle , training, protocols, ettiquettes, and how ot bring honour to ones House, and Master/Dom, or Mistress/Domme. We are based in Ft. Wayne IN, we REQUIRE real time particapation. Yahoo membership needed.

♠ Kinky Jews – Kinky Jews – The next generation movement of Jewish kinksters throughout the world. All fetishes and sexual orientations welcome. Registration required.

♠ Knot for Everyone – Serving Central New Jersey, Knot for Everyone (KFE) is a friendly, social group offering afficionados of Dominance / Submission / Bondage / Discipline / Sadism / Masochism a private place to meet, socialize

♠ Lesbian Sex Mafia - Support and information group for lesbian, bisexual, heterosexual and transexual women interested in bondage, discipline, S/M, fetishes, and alternate gender identities. New York City.

♠ Long Island Staylace Association - A support forum for individuals who enjoy corsets.

♠ MAsT Washington – The male Washington, DC Chapter for MAsT (Master and slaves Together), a support groups for Masters and slaves and those interested in the D/s lifestyle. Founded in 1999 by Master Taino.

♠ Masters and slaves Together (MAsT) – A national network of support groups for Masters and slaves of all sexual orientations and genders.

♠ Midwest Alternatives – Midwest Alternatives, a Nebraska based BDSM list for those who are new or experienced in BDSM.

♠ National Leather Association – We are the largest and most active organization in the world serving the Leather/SM/Fetish community.

♠ Nebraska Community Ties – To find and meet others in the Nebraska area (and surrounding states) who are interested in exploring and learning more about r/l B.D.S.M and the lifestyle. Yahoo membership required.

♠ OCLA – OCLA is an information source for the leather, S/M and fetish community in the Southern California area. The group is open to adults over 18 years old, regardless of gender or sexual orientation.

♠ Ohio SMART – Cleveland Ohio’s oldest and largest BDSM educational and social organization. Monthly meetings is the third Sat. nite of the month. Dungeon Play Party after the meeting and on the First Friday of the month.

♠ PaDLS – We are a Group in Western Ky, of like minded people that Live the BDSM lifestyle Who meet, share, help, teach and have fun. Yahoo membership required.

♠ Peer Group – Cincinnati, Ohio. PEER Group is a sincere discussion/support/social group for adults of all orientations concerned with Dominance/submission in love relationships.

♠ Pensacola Power Exchange Group – Support Group located in Florida.

♠ People Exchanging Power – Nationwide support network and national news clearinghouse for those interested in dominant/submissive erotic love relationships, fetishes and other unique forms of sexuality.

♠ PEP Denver – PEP Denver is a pansexual BDSM support Group.

♠ ProDomiNation.com – Ilsa Strix has opened a multi-media project that features over 5 dozen Dommes, proceeds from this site go towards a Pro Domme Legal Defense Fund.

♠ Sagacity – Outstanding Kink in Victoria B.C. – Sagacity is a place where those that enjoy the alternative lifestyle of BDSM gather to talk, laugh, socialize, share, and learn.

♠ T3WD – This Thing That We Do – Pansexual BDSM education and support group in the Columbia, SC area.

♠ The Chi-Town and Suburban Munchgroup – Large Chicago and area munchgroup. Over 300 members.

♠ The Sarasota Society – The Sarasota Society is a Florida BDSM lifestyle group. There are no membership dues. We have monthly events that are open to those interested.

♠ The Submissive Wife – Obedience, discipline and control for submissive married women. Information, text resources and online support forum.

♠ Threshold – Threshold is a non-profit educational and support organization, based in Los Angeles, for adults (over 21) who have an interest in sadomasochism and other activities involved in the safe and consensual exchange of power.

♠ Utica_Kink_Society – Munch group for New York’s LeatherStocking Region. Yahoo membership required.

♠ VSSM – VSSM (Vereniging Studiegroep Sado-Masochisme) is a pansexual non-profit association for BDSM-oriented people. Situated in the Netherlands. Oldest SM-society in the world.

♠ Whippersnappers – Whippersnappers is an Atlanta-based educational and social BDSM TNG group for people in their 20′s and 30′s.