Punishing is serious business. And good and effectual domestic punishment should be executed with care, a sharp eye for ritual and most of all, carefully planned and timed to create optimal effect.

Classic domestic discipline can be divided in five – equally important – phases that all contribute to the total punishment in their own way.

1. Confession and judgment

2. Awaiting punishment

3. Presentation for punishment

4. The punishment itself

5. Finalizing/Confessing her sin sin is important that you both explore and exploit each phase to the maximum – make sure attention is given to every detail and also make sure that every phase is executed to its full capacity. Not only will this make the punishment session a very long and intense one – it will also make sure it is a punishment she is not likely to forget quickly. A sharp eye for detail as well as ritual is what has an impact and leaves a deeper impression than the actual punishment itself.

Confession and Judgment

Compunction, shame, embarrassment, humiliation, discomfort and fear are all factors that are just as important as the actual pain itself. In fact they will have a mental influence on the pain-perception (i.e. make it more intense) and largely contribute to the effect of the punishment as a whole – most importantly the learning curve, which the entire objective.

An experienced disciplinarian will enjoy every phase of the disciplining process, but will probably find most of his joy in the initial, first phase – in the tears, the fears, the blushing and the nervousness.

In this first phase she must stand – or kneel – before her educator and confess her sins, whichever they will be. Most experienced disciplinarians will prefer the young lady standing, since this is a more uncertain position and does not allow her to “crawl into her submission” as she is likely to do when being allowed to kneel down. Don’t accept whispering or stammering. She must confess her sins out load – verbalize them clearly and she must feel the full embarrassment and the shame.

Tell her how disappointed you are, how she has let you down (in fact betrayed you) and do tell her just how disappointed you are having to punish her (again). Lecturing is a very good idea now. Make her stand, feel uneasy, ashamed, humiliated. She is likely to blush and cry. Let the tears flow – she is supposed to feel ashamed, small, worthless and agonized. She must know she can only regain a certain dignity though punishment, pain and suffering.

Corner time! Opinions vary on the question if a sentence should be brought forward now. Some disciplinarians prefer to fell a judgment now, others prefer to keep her unaware of her fait for a while longer. All of that is simply a matter of personal preference. However, in the event you are planning to be merciful this time and let her off with a mild punishment, better don’t tell her. She may find false hope and false self-assurance in the fact that she’s going to get away with a mild punishment this time.

Whether she should be dressed or undressed in this phase is also up for debate. But since the idea is to create maximum unease at this point, you want to take that into account when deciding about which you prefer.

Awaiting Punishment

The next phase to let her wait for the punishment to be executed. In other words: corner time. Again you are looking for maximum embarrassment. Standing in the corner is humiliating and creates unease; on her knees is humiliating and painful. Hands behind the head or behind the back – pants down and skirt up so the later to be punished target area is neatly exposed.

Make it a long wait. Half an hour won’t hurt – an hour is doable for most young ladies although it certainly will not be a fun hour. And due to the combination of stress, fear and frustration the muscles are very likely to slightly cramp and hurt but that as such is no problem and actually can be a very useful part of the entire punishment.

Again there is really no reason to be overly sensitive or merciful. Painful muscles or knees, having to visit the bathroom (likely, this is usually a signal of nervousness), getting tired? All that is bad luck and are things she should all have considered before bringing punishment upon herself.

If she wets her pants, the better it is – you cannot have enough embarrassment in this phase and next time that’ll probably call for having her wear a diaper during corner time.

 

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