Vaginal Fisting  (Handballing) is finger fucking and then some. This guide first became aware of the concept when reviewing lesbian tapes produced by and for women. it seems that some women enjoy having a partner’s fist inside their vagina. In fact, most women who enjoy fisting share the experience with near religious awe – an […]

by Hans Meyer Although discriminatory legislation sometimes likes to let you believe otherwise, there are fundamental differences between erotic power exchange and domestic violence. Erotic power exchange should always be based on the VICSS-concept. What is VICSS? * Voluntary: all partners involved in erotic power exchange activity of whatever nature should decide to do so […]

by Hans Meyer The cross is a piece of bondage equipment that is frequently misunderstood. This of course is the result of the way religion portrays the use of the cross. Fact of the matter is that this well known “crucifixion” position is not only historically wrong, but also – as scientists have determined – […]

by Hans Meyer Most submissive women love it and quite a few dominant men love to do it: “putting her in her place”, for example by making her stand in the corner for a while to contemplate her position. Unfortunately, many tend to forget the rather important timing issues involved here. Too long or too […]

by Hans Meyer at Wasteland In Part 1 of this series, I covered the basics of the “knowing her place” paradigm that is often at the core of 24×7 D/s relationships.  Let’s go a little deeper into additional techniques that can be introduced. Enhancing There are several ways to enhance this situation. Make sure she […]

by Hans Meyer at Wasteland Footstocks are feared by all slaves, who have ever experienced them. They are extremely restrictive and not entirely without risk. Footstocks are quite extreme devices. All the slave can do is stand and usually even the slightest movement will distress her ankles. She has to stand and has to stand […]

Consent Consent is one of the most important, perhaps the most important issue, in BDSM. Before you can do something to another person, they must agree. Touching another person, or even their clothing, without their consent, regardless of the degree of strength used -even if it’s minimal-is a crime. Don’t do it! People below the […]