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Body Harnesses (KARADA & KOTORI)

Body harnesses can also form the basis of your bondage. Depending on your further plans, you may want to use different ones. Here are two: one for general purposes and one for specific suspension purposes. KARADA: (Japanese word for body) is another basic bondage. It is a non-suspension body harness, aiming to tease almost the […]

The First Bondage Layer (SHINJU & SAKURANBO)

Every Japanese bondage starts with a basis. Call it the bondage-lingerie if you like. Now you already need to know what you are working towards. If you want to go to suspension, your basis should be a suspension harness. Here we start with bondages based on windings, aiming at some support and first of all […]

Japanese Bondage Background & Basics

Japanese bondage (SHICHISEKI) techniques are slowly entering the Western erotic world. They appeal to many people, mainly because of the beauty and the erotic charisma. There is a lot more to Japanese, or oriental, bondage than just this. Doing it requires knowledge and understanding. There is very little written information about Japanese bondage. As far […]

Rules Or No Rules? : Part II

Management by Exception What you, fellow disciplinarian, will want to do is called “management by exception”. In other words, create a situation where behavior patterns are logical and natural and any exception stands out quickly. If she is to use a certain type of make up only, you can easily and quickly spot offenses and […]

Rules Or No Rules? : Part I

Rules and behavior patterns. Oh, the very joy of fantasizing about them. Unfortunately, while rules are the foothold for your well educated diamond of beauty and obedience, they truly are the disciplinarians worst and most fearsome enemy. Nothing is worse than an unfollowed rule. It will both kill the confidence of your young lady as […]

Rope Basics – Part 2

Colors Colors are first of all a matter of personal preference. However, most experience bondage masters will use either different colors or different color tips at the ends of the ropes to identify ropes for special purposes (such as ropes that are only to be used in the genital area). You can die your ropes […]

Rope Basics – Part 1

Rope: available in many different types, qualities, thicknesses, strength and colors. For safety and comfort reasons you need to know about ropes if you plan to enter into erotic bondage. Allow us to first of all put an end to the discussion about cotton rope versus synthetic rope (nylon, polyprop, etcetera). It is largely a […]

Why is SM Taboo?

…is SM criminal, unnatural, immoral, unethical, or unhealthy? If what we’ve been saying in this FAQ is accurate, then why haven’t more people heard this? Why are the prevailing images of SM so negative? There is no doubt that they _are_ negative. Not long ago I was informed that there are some members of the […]