There are four key elements to bondage. They do not always come together in every session and they do not have to. That is up to the dominant’s plan and intentions. But it is important to understand them. Regardless the technique you use, these key elements (in random order) are: ß- Time ß- Helplessness ß- […]

On Attending A Play Party We get lots of email asking the same basic question in many variations… “I want to attend a play party; what is the etiquette?” The simplest way to fit in in a play party is to behave politely. There will be people right in front of you who are doing […]

Techniques And Tricks For Doing It Right Incorporating the hair in your bondage is appealing to many and for many different reasons. It dramatically increases the feeling of being restrained, it’s incredibly intimate and personal, it can be painful, humiliating and it often is a very effecitive way to keep the head still and in […]

This article deals with the most frequently asked questions about watersports. As always, it is almost impossible to deal with all questions, so no, we are not complete, neither striving to be. There is a lot of good information around on the subject. But this is a basic primer on things you should know about […]

Safety And “How To” Tips This is a basic primer on fisting, including tips on how to do it and some important safety reminders. Once you’ve read this you may also want to visit the page on “anal sex” mentioned at the end of this article. What is “fisting”? Everyone (well, almost everyone) knows what […]

Different techniques will accomplish different things. We all know about the clitoris and the effects of stimulating it, but the G-spot is not clear to everybody – men as well as women. Here is a different technique to accomplish some different orgasms. Orgasms that not every woman is aware of and that – as a […]

A fetish is any object which has sexual connotations for you. It can be anything, actually. A fetish can either be an object, a certain type of fabric, a scent or a situation. To be somewhat more explicit. You can get turned on by, for example, either high heels, sexy lingerie, boots, leather, silk, a […]

Some Dangerous Myths Exploded There are all sorts of knockdowns on the subject of erotic power exchange around, all of them often used by legislators as well as others who oppose erotic power exchange. All of these are based on assumed psychological or psychiatric “knowledge” or “facts.” The fact of the matter is that none […]