“The proof of the pudding is in the eating”. Many doms will do well to regularly test their subs, in order to try and find out if what she says or wants is actually that, or if she is repeating things she has seen or heard about elsewhere and is merely copying others. One area […]

Actually we only need one line: bondage is restraining your partner by means of rope, straps, cuffs, belts, tape, scarf’s or anything similar. But then …. that would be too simple, wouldn’t it? First this. Those into bondage may be very picky about it. Much like “spanking” bondage has its purists. They would argue only […]

Bondage can be performed in a perfectly safe way, provided some precautions are taken and the dom knows what to do. Here are some simple guidelines to follow. First this: the dimensions (especially the thickness) of the ropes you are using and the body of your sub have to be in proportion. Not only does […]

One way to use bondage is to introduce the element of time. And with that comes …….. frustration. And expectation. And a lot of other things. Modern cheap technology makes it easy and safe to monitor a tied slave from a distance. Simple install a webcam or a dial up mobile remote camera and you […]

The founding father of modern day western style bondage is John Willie, a gifted bondagist, photographer and sketch-artist, as well as the first one ever to publish a BDSM-magazine: “Bizarre”. Willie was active in the pre and post WW2 era and is probably best known for his “Sweet Gwendoline” BDSM-comic books. Minimal Bondage The essence […]

Spreader bars come in a wide variety of sizes and designs and they are a handy toy. Their main objective is sexual exposure, but they can do other things as well, such as hobble. Steel spreader bars are your best choice, but if that is out of your financial range, wood will do nicely and […]

Body harnasses come in many shapes and sizes. Torso harnasses usually do not work very well on females, since they are designed for males. A full body harnass is a much better idea. A body harness is a good investment, since it is versatile and can serve many different purposes. One word of warning in […]

Binding or securing the arms on the back and next bringing them up is one of the most demanding and painful bondage positions around. The position is known as “the German hoist”, which may be a reference to the fact that this position was very popular with the German Gestapo during WW II interrogation sessions. […]