Bdsm-relationship or not: household chores need to be done. There will always be dishes to do, meals to be cooked, cupboards to clean, floors to be vacuumed and laundry to be taken care of. And there is no reason why these should not be incorporated into the BDSM dynamics. The only thing is: it needs […]

A very effective form of humiliation is to do totally useless things. Bondage is one of the best forms to use for this type of BDSM-action, since the sub cannot escape the humiliation and the ropes will also keep her in position. This may be a great objectification tool, especially for testing purposes, but also […]

Of course you are not limited to paint, when it comes to introducing more or less alien substances into your BDSM-scenes. Things become terribly messy, absolute fun or deeply humiliating when you turn to sticky substances, such as certain food products. Think submissive peanut butter and jelly sandwich! One thing to think about is warm […]

Sometimes making a real mess can be highly erotic. One way to do that is to use ……… paint. Pour it over her, color her and make her scream about this new and unknown substance on her naked flesh. You can create all sorts of effects with paint and other substances, it can be fun, […]

“Watersports” is a euphemism for the use of urine in an erotic setting. In more medical terms, the phenomena is known as urolagnia (lust for urine) or urophilia. Pornography – in its constant urge to oversimplify eroticism and sexual behavior with simple but generally useless one-liners – usually describes it as “pissex”. There are various […]

The question that always comes up first in any discussion about watersports is: isn’t it unhealthy. Or isn’t it dirty? “Dirty” is of course a personal qualification that varies from person to person. The standard answer to the health-question is: in principle urine is not hazardous to your health, provided it comes from a completely […]

This article deals with the most frequently asked questions about watersports. As always, it is almost impossible to deal with all questions, so no, we are not complete, neither thriving to be. How can you touch that stuff? It is far from unnatural to feel resistance or shame when it comes to watersports. In fact […]

Each party, munch, gathering or BDSM venue usually has its own rules. However, there are quite a few general rules and not all of them are that obvious. So, here is the guide to attending public BDSM events. It will prevent you from making obvious and less obvious mistakes. Munches First of all, you have […]