The Internet brings about its own formats and protocol (a.k.a. “netiquette”). Many mistakes are being made – most of which will result in flame wars. There is no need for that if you understand a few simple basics. Most of these will help you as well as protect you So how do you find your […]

Almost every BDSM relationship, regardless its nature, will almost automatically develop its own protocol, either because the dominant sets certain rules – his sub must adhere to – or because the two of you simply “grow into it”. Experienced doms and subs alike will tell you, that just about the worst beginner mistake you can […]

Kneeling, standing, sitting ……… basically pose can – and probably will – be turned into a position. Going from pose to position is what happens almost naturally in just about every BDSM relationship. And actually it is a lot of fun. And it may not be all that easy. But isn’t that what BDSM is […]

Some dominants require a very specific punishment protocol for their slaves. Many of these are described in “The Institute” section, where we deal with Victorian and domestic discipline. However, this too is a good example of a punishment ritual. The idea is to let any punishment, whatever it is, truly hit home. Not just the […]

Do you know what “French sex” is? Well it is the European euphemism for a blow job. My name is Nicole and for a while now when I am allowed to drink coffee, it will be “French coffee”. This is my story. My husband and I run a private business. It is an Internet based […]

This article deals with a couple of things to consider before buying chastity belts, especially when the objective is to wear them for longer periods of time. Here you will find some considerations form the female point of view as well as a set of instructions on how to measure yourself in the event you […]

Contrary to popular belief, chastity devices have been around in other cultures and before the European Middle Ages and the crusaders. Both Japan and China have known chastity devices long before the Europeans ever invented them and in Arabic countries vaginal (labia) piercing’s and locks have been used for ages as a very effective chastity […]

Here you will find some answers to your questions about chastity belts, predominantly steel versions. It may be obvious, but we are only talking female chastity devices here. At the end of this document you will find a list of Internet resources, where you can mail order chastity devices. What material should I choose? Much […]