It is possible – albeit not with every sub – to train her to the point where she can be “milked” for small amounts of lactate. Before you get enthusiastic about this: the idea may be very appealing but getting her there is a long process and you will only know after a long time […]

The technique for anal fisting basically is no different from the technique, described in the article about vaginal fisting, with a few exceptions. First of all: you need more time, more patience, a lot more lubricant and quite likely a training program to get to this stage. For safety reasons: wear gloves and trim and […]

Domestic Discipline The Phases Of A Punishment – Part I Punishing is serious business. And good and effectual domestic punishment should be executed with care, a sharp eye for ritual and most of all, carefully planned and timed to create optimal effect. Classic domestic discipline can be divided in five – equally important – phases […]

What is all this? So what exactly are we talking about here? Erotic power exchange has many faces, and just about as many names as well. SM, S&M, BDSM, SMBD, sadomasochism, algolagnia, bondage, you name it. So what is what? Well, first of all we try to avoid any reference to the terms sadism and […]

Young People and Erotic Power Exchange Research shows some significant differences in opinion and behavior between men and women when it comes to erotic power exchange. We singled out the respondents between 18 and 24 years of age for you, because the answers of the respondents in this age range point to some very interesting […]

Welcome to our “under 25″ page. Why does a page like this exist? Well, because young adults have different questions when it comes to BDSM, D/s, S&M. erotic power exchange or whatever you want to call it. If you’re over 25, you’re welcome here as well, but don’t expect to find that “young BDSM chick” […]

Marina is a prime example. She knew from the time she was 6 years old that she was expected to succeed in school and sports. She learned to focus on achievement as a way to dismiss emotions and desires. “I learned very young that desires are dangerous,” she says. She heard that message in the […]

Bind my ankles with your white cotton rope so I cannot walk. Bind my wrists so I cannot push you away. Place me on the bed and wrap your rope tighter around my skin so it grips my flesh. Now I know that struggle is useless, that I must lie here and submit to your […]