The Different Sensations At this point it’s important to explain the two different ways in which people can experience erotic power exchange activity. In simple terms: there are kick-seekers and life-stylers. Kick-seekers will be interested in short term, more or less incidental sensations without an obvious coherent pattern. They will sometimes visit parties, seek incidental […]

 How Chemical Reactions Affect Us The most Frequently Asked Question, certainly by people outside the erotic power exchange world, is: “What’s so nice about pain?” The answer is simple: there’s nothing “nice” about just pain. But, when applied with care and knowledge, impulses such as pain, stress, fear and humiliation – in the right context […]

The Ritual Suicide Another intriguing source for the Japanese bondage origin and history are ancient Japanese police records. In the 17th century at least one traditional bondage was used by doomed love couples in ritualistic suicides. “Forbidden lovers” (usually lovers from different social classes) would sometimes use the “shinju” (a torso harness) bondage to tie […]

Japanese bondage information The knowledge of the ancient art of is very incomplete. Research and knowledge development are still going on every day. There are many different styles, such as Fumo Ryu (the spiritual style) or Iki (the bare Zen essentials only style) and the individual styles of various rope artists. Picture a room, lit […]

Where – and how – to buy rope? You would not believe the places people go to, to buy bondage rope and the stories they come up with in an effort to try and hide their true motives. Believe us, the more complicated your “story”, the more likely it is the shop assistant will know […]

By far the most common misconception is that Shibari is very soft and romantic. Shibari is serious stuff. Even the simplest of bondages are not romantic or “soft bondage”. Each individual bondage has specific targets and goals. Their common objective is to stimulate Ki energy flow and start an adrenaline and subsequent combined endorphins, dopamine […]

If you haven’t come from there, you may also want to visit the previous page “Anal Sex 101″ and the next one on “Fisting” (both mentioned again at the end of this article). General overview and safety For various reasons anal play or sex – yes, there is a difference – appeals to many people […]

This is a basic primer on anal sex, including tips on how to do it and some important safety reminders. Once you’ve read this you may also want to visit the next page on “anal sex” and the one on “fisting” mentioned at the end of this article. Is anal sex safe? Why do people […]