Riding crops Most experienced pony owners prefer to have at least two different riding crops – one for dressage and one for punishments (this way some of the fear for the crops’ potential during dressage is taken away). During dressage and training the crop is used for light corrections – tipping rather than whipping. As […]

The area is called everything, from lower cheeks, to buttock, to butt, to whatever. And within the BDSM context it is usually connected with spanking, caning and whipping. But there is a lot more to this versatile and appealing area of the slave’s body. So in La Derrière we will look into everything BUT flogging, […]

The butt can handle a lot. But is also remarkably sensitive. It is this aspect that opens a lot of possibilities for subtle torturing, teasing and torment. Letting her wear no panties is fun. Letting her wear panties that are either one size too small or too large can be a lot more fun. Since […]

We deliberately picked a vintage picture to start this article, since it is such a wonderful presentation of what “presentation” will do, mentally especially. There she is, on her knees, in the corner, the area – designated for a soon to follow punishment – exposed and the punishment instrument next to her, for her to […]

It is amazing how many people tend to forget the obvious. One of these – often forgotten – things is the use of clamps on the buttocks. You can use lots of them in that area. Of course they will not be as painful as they are when used on for example the nipples or […]

Erotic spanking is usually a lot of fun. Using spanking as a punishment has a few major disadvantages. The dom’s hands will soon hurt just as much and it can be very demanding. There are a few ways to bypass these disadvantages. If you really want to use spanking as a punishment, you need to […]

Let’s say you want to do some toilet training, disallow her the use of the bathroom for a while and you want to make sure she doesn’t go anyway. Or the two of you had great anal sex and you want her remember that for a while, keep your sperm in there and hence not […]

Another versatile and easy to find piece of BDSM furniture is a simple bar stool. You can find them almost anywhere, they will usually cost you only a few dollars (buying them second hand or on a car-boot or garage sale is usually easy) and most of them make excellent spanking benches. They are also […]