Not everyone is a great carpenter. Not everyone can easily store BDSM-related furniture in such a way that it is not all that obvious what you are into and not everyone has the budget to buy fancy furniture. In these cases “the plank” will come in handy. It is easy to make, easy to store […]

BDSM play on and around the buttocks is very likely going to take quite some time and you may want to use some form of furniture, that you can tie you slave to. The couch or a chair will usually do, but for various reasons it is a lot fun to have dedicated furniture just […]

The Inside The intestines are anything but straight. The rectum (the part just before the anal opening) ends in a sharp, ninety degree upward curve. This is why you cannot get all of your penis in. If you attempt to push past this turn, you will only cause tremendous pain, for both yourself and for […]

General precautions The use of latex gloves when using your hands is a must, to protect yourself, to protect your sub, her insides and for hygienic reasons. Never move your hands, fingers, penis or toys from the anus to the vagina without thoroughly washing them first! There are health risks for both dom and sub […]

For various reasons anal play or sex – yes, there is a difference – (a.k.a. Greek sex) appeals to many people who are into erotic power exchange. Although personal motivations may vary, the need for the sub to actively cooperate as well as the fact that many women have a mental barrier here are the […]

Rimming and finger play Rimming and soft stimulation of the outer anal area with a fingertip or a vibrator can be a very exciting feeling and, in many cases, contributes greatly to the sexual arousal of your sub. It is also the introduction to advanced forms of anal play. If that is what you want, […]

Roughly speaking, there are four different body-to-body ways to bring the anus into sexual play: anal penis penetration (also known as “Greek sex”), anal fingering, penetration with buttplugs or other toys, rimming (stimulating the anal area with the tongue) and anal fisting. There is nothing wrong with having any form of anal stimulation, as long […]

Body harnesses can also form the basis of your bondage. Depending on your further plans, you may want to use different ones. Here are two: one for general purposes and one for specific suspension purposes. KARADA: (Japanese word for body) is another basic bondage. It is a non-suspension body harness, aiming to tease almost the […]