In this chapter I give you the basic structure of a sex magick ritual with the ‘how’s and ‘why’s while next chapter describes several possibilities for working alone, with one or maybe more partners. First set a goal – What exactly do you want to achieve with your magick? – Your goal can be any […]

Several sex magick authors emphasize the importance of the mingling of male and female sexual fluids; in case you have a partner who carries no sexual transferable disease it is great to (also) physically mingle sexual fluids; but in case you’re not sure please know that magick goes beyond matter, what means that on astral […]

It has just as many names as there are risks: the bitching game. Verbal humiliation, teasing and mentally taking her to her limits. This is not about calling her names, but about mocking her agony. In it’s simplest form: “oh dear, does it hurt so much? here, let me give you some more!” Before we […]

By Hans Meijer The number one question I get asked – certainly by people outside the erotic power exchange world – is, “What is so exciting about pain?” Well, there is nothing “nice” about just pain. But, when applied with care and knowledge, pain can do several different things to your body and mind. It […]

Age Play Role-playing the persona of someone substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual age. Animal Games A form a role-playing in which one person pretends to be some kind of animal – often a dog, sometimes a horse. Assertive Fantasies A “code phrase” sometimes found in personal ads to indicate dominant interests. BDSM […]

There are many different angles one can take when looking at and discussing erotic power exchange. The most often used ones are sexual and psychological related. Less common is the cultural/sociological one. Can erotic power exchange be identified as a (sub)culture and if so, by what terms? Are “We” A Culture? By Hans Meijer Occasionally […]

1. What do B&D, S&M, D&S, “top”, “bottom” mean? The easy part first: B&D = “bondage & dominance” or “bondage & discipline.” S&M = “sadism & masochism.” D&S = “dominance & submission.” People who read a.s.b are generally interested in ways to have sex that are outside the mainstream. One of the recurrent threads on […]

A controversial, yet much talked about issue is watersports, also known as golden showers. In other words play that involves urine in any way. In this section you will find information on this subject, on what it is, the various different forms as well as health-issues and more. You can click on one of the […]