Rules and behavior patterns.

Oh, the very joy of fantasizing about them. Unfortunately, while rules are the foothold for your well educated diamond of beauty and obedience, they truly are the disciplinarians worst and most fearsome enemy.

Nothing is worse than an unfollowed rule. It will both kill the confidence of your young lady as well as your charisma (and eventually her respect) as her Lord and Master. So, fellow gentleman Masters, please be wise and most importantly, control yourself in this area.

Most experienced disciplinarians have seen it all before. She must be sexually available at all times, she must await me kneeling by the door when I come home, she must do ……… you name it. Unfortunately the result of many such rules is that they are unpractical, counterproductive to her motivation and – probably most importantly – BORING! And boredom is what kills many a promising relationship. It may sound exciting to have her ask for permission, every time she needs to visit the bathroom. The actual result of this however is that many a time you, disciplinarian, will not be around to grant permission, it will bore you and you will have to check continuously of she does not cheat. Even with one such rule, this becomes an increasingly nagging duty for you, your attention level will drop probably after a few days and the whole thing will become a drag. That is not what you want.

So, can I not have rules? Yes of course you can, but think behavior pattern rather than rule. This is quite easily explained with a few examples.

♦ Quite a few disciplinarians will value a certain way, in which his young lady dresses. These might either be colour patterns, certain items she must wear or certain items that should be left out. If this is what you want, make it easy on yourself.

If you prefer to see her dressed in skirts and dresses, simply remove trousers, pants and other such items from her wardrobe. But do bear in mind that a wardrobe with only mini skirts may be rather impractical in winter or during office hours. So make sure to add items that – within the context of your preferences – are practical as well.

In the event you prefer her to be without underwear all the time, this is likely to become impractical (for example during her period) but is is entirely feasible to keep one or two pairs of knickers under lock and key so she can ask for permission to wear them if and when she feels she needs to.

♦ Another example. Many disciplinarians would like to see their young lady cut down on habits, such as smoking. This is frequently done by having her ask permission, whenever she wants to light a cigarette. This again soon becomes boring. Much more effective is to simply limit the number of cigarettes she can smoke during a day or week and provide her with exactly that number, while keeping any others under lock and key. At the same time, you may want to make it clear exactly when she is and is not allowed to smoke, for example she may not smoke when she is around you, or may smoke, but not in the house. This again will make your life easier and the situation will become a lot simpler to manage.

♦ One of the most powerful ways to control the behavior pattern of your young lady is through her ability to spend money (something that should be dealt with anyway, since ladies in general have a tendency to over-spend). There are two ways to deal with this in an effective and easy to manage way. One is to obtain a specific credit card for her and only allow her the use of this. The weekly credit card statement will be an excellent item for you to check her spending pattern and whenever necessary ask for clarification. The other, somewhat more laborious, way is to provide her with an exact weekly budget in cash, for which she must account.

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