One way to use bondage is to introduce the element of time. And with that comes …….. frustration. And expectation. And a lot of other things.

Modern cheap technology makes it easy and safe to monitor a tied slave from a distance. Simple install a webcam or a dial up mobile remote camera and you will be able to monitor what is happening (and make sure she is safe) from another location. This other location of course should be the adjacent room – so you can move quickly should something happen. But the effects are all the same.

She is alone. She cannot go anywhere. And she has no other options but to wait for her tormentor to return and ………

Absence

One of the secrets of domination is to NOT do anything. bear this in mind. As soon as you announce a session, expectations will be high. The DVD player in her head will quickly start to work overtime, working out scenarios and expectations. And then …….. nothing happens. She is tied, naked, alone and …… that’s it.

No, that is not a deception. On the contrary. This is where you really show dominance. You are the master of the situation. You are the dealer. You decide. You control and steer the situation. That – in essence – is what every submissive really wants.

Yes it is frustrating. Yes, she may rebel, scream, cry and maybe more. but ….. this IS what domination and submission is all about.

She is likely to get cold. There will be all sorts of discomforts, from the proverbial itch on the nose to cramp or maybe some chaffing. That is part of the deal. That is also what makes it “real”.

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